Wednesday, January 28, 2015

Super- women

I have a issue this morning. It's been on my mind a few days so I'm putting it out there. I don't like some of the things I see and hear about women. So hears just a little of how I think.
1st- women are beautiful, smart, loving and sometimes over the top. Why, we carry the world on our shoulders. We feel the need to be fixers of everything and everyone that we love. We want all things to be ' just right'. We want all happy and their lives running smooth.
2nd- we are moms, which covers so much, it's like once that baby comes out, we start, hugging, cleaning, loving and turning into a momma bear to protect what's ours. We will stand up , fight and give you a what for when it comes to our kids. Even our family and friends, the momma comes out.
3rd- we are called whiny, witchy, or worse when we want things done. Well if that's what it takes well so be it. We want as I said earlier, things ' just right. We are the soft place to land, we love hugs and cuddles we love to give love.
4th- yes at times we are mind readers and future seers. We anticipate what could, might or possibly happen. We do have eyes everywhere. We know what men are thinking and no they can't read our mind and actually that's a good thing :)
5th- we are a weaker vessel in a few ways that's why we have our men, but also when we are weak we are strong, God made us a helpmate for a reason. We are to guide, understand, and listen, and have respect as we should get it to. No we don't know everything but we are close:)
6th- as a woman at times my mind may get a little foggy, skip a page or veer from side to side, but there are things you may not know or understand, there's issues you may never know. See this goes back to us being fixers. So just have compassion and help us move on.
7th- being a woman I need understanding, forgiveness, love, leadership, security, prayer and lots of encouragement to lift me up. Yes it's a lot, but we give these things to, a little everyday .
8th- don't criticize be little or take to lightly women, we carry a lot, we have babies, we handle most anything the best we know how and then we tolerate menopause. 
9th- God created us for so many reasons, for so many jobs and we as women do them. We are not perfect, we make mistakes but when we get it right, oh it's a great day. 
10- hmm ok yes we are a little crazy, we over protect, we are to concerned about everything but we mean well, I know sometimes meaning well is not the best at times, so we continue to try. All the bad jokes or name calling about women, I'd sure like to know where people would be without us. 
FYI- with the 20 year olds, encourage and have patience. The 30 years olds just know they are realizing who they are they are coming into their own. 40 and up, we know who we are and what we can do but are still learning. But on up, just stay out of their way and smile as you walk by:)




1 comment:

  1. I am in that Just Stay Out of the Way group and we are not super women but we most of the time will think we are.

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